Spiritual Stylism (English Version)

#52 How to stop sabotaging yourself unconsciously over and over and start living as a creater being and choose consciously...

Why do some of us constantly experience situations in life where they have to fight their way through again and again and can prove to themselves and the world how "strong" they are. According to the motto "Life, you can't get me small, I can overcome anything" (which of course attracts them even more situations to fight in their lives), but not as a wise and strong inner attitude to face challenges awake and resting in themselves, but as a declaration of war. Still others seem to attract situations where they suffer and feel like victims of life and circumstances and others where fear and doubt repeat themselves again and again. We ourselves, of course unconsciously, create again and again these situations in our lives, which appear "accidental" on the outs and with which we then have to deal. If we go back even further and explore which part of us this tailor-made scenario unconsciously serves and which identity keeps alive with it, then you have a chance to interrupt this cycle. This presupposes that you take responsibility for your unconscious manifestations and recognise yourself as the creator of your life.

#51 The relationship number one is the one with your higher self...

Do you know the guilt and shame of taking time for yourself and even putting your relationship with yourself first? In the matrix, this is often called "selfish". I would reverse it exactly, not doing it is selfish. How can you be a light from an unconscious personality for yourself and thus also in the world? Is anything else on your daily to-do list really more important than becoming truly aware of "yourself" in yourself?
Without going inwards and feeling what looks out of you, what perceives so called reality, what rests behind all the worldly events, it becomes almost impossible to experience this in a tangible way. You can read about it, read thousands of books, attend courses, learn techniques, but to experience it, tangible... truly, that's what makes the difference. That takes time and energy...and can there really be something that's more important than that? When you have found yourself in yourself, felt yourself, then you stop running, you run less and less and what you truly are becomes more and more real. But it takes your dedication and your time....the clear decision to put yourself first

#50 What is your true purpose in this incarnation?

What is your true purpose in this incarnation? And does that actually exist, the ONE mission? Or is it much more true that we always embody our "mission" when we are awake and conscious? That every breath, every action, every expression is where our mission is alive? How we touch the world, be touched by our own? If we are one with all that is, then we are connected with the one truth, we are then an expression of that one truth and is not that our only true "mission" that is then expressed in every action?

#49 All Identifications are limitations and a lie...whenever you say "I am so and so", you are trapped in a program in yourself...

Consciousness is the only reality that exists. Whenever you are saying to yourself "this is me, this is how I am, I am that kind of a person", you are running a program, you are trapped in the Matrix. The only truth is "I am the I am", that´s it. You are everything and nothing, you are consciousness in a physical vehicle, in a human body. It is such a trap to put ourselves in a box with a name on and this is than our life. The worst is, that all of these programs has nothing to do with us. We are conditioned from our ancestors, parents, teachers, friends, society etc., and we don't even know that we have a choice to just decide to step out it. As all of it is unconscious, we are just letting these believes drive the bus, wich we call our life. You have the choice to free yourself, every single moment. So watch yourself, whenever you have the thought "this is me" or "I am that kind of a person", you are deepening the false self, the imposter in you. Be brave and let your higher self lead this incarnation, therefore let go of all identifications and become a nobody to be able to become everything. 

#48 True intimacy starts within yourself....

To feel yourself pur and vulnerable again, without masks and rolls, to perceive this raw core in you, that is intimacy for me. You allow yourself to see yourself completely, with everything that is there and to love and fully accept you with it. No judgement, no "wanting to get rid of it", pure acceptance for everything that is there. Then the protective walls collapse more and more, because there is nothing left to hide. You recognise this innocent and untouched core in you again and an incomparable closeness and depth to yourself arises. Only then can you be really close to someone else.

#47 We always "take" if we "give" from our programming, no matter how seemingly selfless our actions look. Here we "give" to get something, not to have to feel something buried deep in us.

I invite you to courageously and truthfully question your deeper intentions behind your actions. And don't stop at the first answer you get, it's definitely  coming from your ego, dive deeper and deeper and be bold. Why are you really calling your friend? To hear how he oder she is doing? Or because you're actually lonely underneath? There is nothing wrong with it, but own it and take care of this loneliness with yourself first, let it be there, feel it and then let it go. Or why do you want to apologise to someone? Really for the other person? Or to be able to feel the superficial "peace" and "harmony" in yourself again, because you do not want to feel the feelings of guilt that have been waiting for your loving attention and embrace for ages. You are not a giver if you carry out your actions out of a deeper lack in your person. Then you take energy from the other to replenish yourself for a short moment, to get short-term satisfaction and deep inside you it continues to ferment... until the next opportunity that life offers you.

#46 The zone of magic...

Are you living in the zone of magic? Do you know, it´s just a question of the vibration you are in, as your higher self IS pure magic, is where the miracles happen, is beyond logic, is infinite and abundant. As this is what we truly are, we can access this state at any moment. Most humans have forgotten about this, have forgotten about the truth, it seems they have lost access to that state, but that is a lie, it´s just hidden underneath the persona and their believes and story. Wake up and live your live out of your higher self and NOT out of a program in the matrix. It´s not complicated or just for so called "special beings", it´s for you and me, for everyone who is willing to drop the false self.

#45 Don't fight against what has already manifested itself on the outside. Perceive it and then focus all your attention on what you want to create.

Be at peace with reality, even if it is challenging. If you are not at peace with the now, you are emanating more energy on what you do not want. Energy always follows the attention. You struggle with the movie on the screen instead of transforming the projection wich comes from within you and that is causing the story on the screen. What is, is already there, it has already manifested. How much sense does it make to fight against it? None at all.  If your vessel is full to the limit, how are new things supposed to get in there? Always remember, you don't get what you want, you will get what you already are! Therein lies the magic, the power and the change.

#44 First fall in love with yourself and enjoy from there the delights of life, from the abundance that´s already in you...

That sounds weird, doesn't it? But it is the same. What we all seek is within us, is always there, was always there and will always be there. You've heard that many times, I suppose. But mental understanding will not help you, only the true feeling and perception of your divine essence will open this truth for you. You can still read 100 spiritual books, travel to big gurus, search everywhere and there is nothing wrong with that. At some point it will exhaust you so much, soften you, let you resign ... hopefully. Then you are ready to stop, stop yourself as a person, stop your programs and give up. Give up the search and find out with all your being. Here and now...it's here, right now in this moment...

#43 What do you use to not be intimate with yourself? What is your personal drug to not feel what is alive in you in every moment?

We all give ourselves the "drug shot" several times a day, the dopamine kick to cover up what is in us and hurts under the surface. This can be anything, we can even use a prayer to not feel what is alive in us and distract us. This is always a movement away from ourselves, we close ourselves up again and send what has made it´s way to the surface to get released back into our system. "No, you're not welcome, I don't want you, not yet, to overwhelming"....that's the message towards these parts in us. This is avoidance and blocks the natural flow of energy in you more and more. What you really are, the energy that naturally lives in you cannot come to light. Everything that lies above wants to be felt briefly, appear in your space for a moment without any judgement and then say goodbye. Your system is constantly trying to free itself from the old to make space for the truth...for ecstasy, love, joy and bliss.